Choose a Partner Who Can Carry Your Vision Yesterday, a dearly beloved woman of God called me in tears. She first came to see me about two years ago because of her marriage. She explained that her husband had become emotionally distant. Although he was very wealthy, he lived in another state and only visited…
Anything Ignored Before Marriage Will Be Harder After Last year, a newly married man came to see me. Not long after his wedding, his financial life took a drastic downturn. As he explained everything that had been happening, the first question that came out of my mouth was, “Why did you marry her?” He looked…
Attention Is Not Commitment Several years ago, a close female friend invited me to her newly rented apartment. At the time, I had just left my job, stepped away from business, and begun full-time ministry. Before I left, she asked me to pray for her. As I prayed, something unusual happened. I became aware of…
Some Love Is Worth Fighting For Two Sundays ago, a lady I had previously worked with shared a testimony that deeply moved me. Her introduction ceremony had just been completed. She described the entire day as unforgettable. According to her, the most beautiful part was watching how God surprised everyone. Because of her age, many…
Don’t Build a Marriage on One Quality About three years ago, a pastor came to me because he wanted clarity before getting married. Someone had referred him to me, and he wanted to know whether he should proceed with the relationship. After seeking direction, I simply told him, “Don’t go ahead with this marriage.” He…
Marriage Magnifies, It Doesn’t Repair One of the most dangerous assumptions people make is believing that marriage automatically fixes relationship problems. It doesn’t. In many cases, marriage simply magnifies what already exists. If a relationship is already unhealthy during courtship, marriage often makes those issues more visible because life becomes more demanding and there is…
One Instruction Can Change Everything One beautiful testimony came in today, and I just had to share it. A lady had been in a relationship with a man for several years. They genuinely loved each other and wanted to get married, but there was one major obstacle. He simply did not have the financial capacity…
Many sincere believers are confused about marriage because they assume spirituality automatically attracts union. They pray. They fast. They serve. They remain morally disciplined. Yet marriage stays distant. This confusion exists because marriage is not blocked by lack of spirituality alone. It is often resisted by active spiritual opposition. In the spirit…
Sometime last year I went to minister somewhere and then a man asked to see me after I was done. He is a contractor and the rest. He said there was a contract he is expecting but was given to someone else and that I should pray for him to get that contract and that…
So I was there sometime ago, the traveling was okay, no interruption at all on the way. I arrived the place I was to minister at midday, approximately by 12pm and was led to the room I will be staying. When I stayed at the room, I closed my eyes to look into the spirit…